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What should a married woman do who has been mistreated by her husband, then committed adultery, and now wishes to atone for her sin and secretly marry another man? Is marriage without a guardian (wali) valid? And if not, is it permissible for her brother to be her guardian instead of her father to maintain secrecy?

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The questioner must make sincere repentance for the crime of adultery, and the husband must also repent. If a divorce occurs, the questioner should not marry the fornicator unless he repents.

It is permissible not to publicize the marriage if there is a benefit in doing so, provided that the Sharia conditions are met, including the presence of a guardian (wali). It is not permissible for a more distant guardian (e.g., a brother) to act as a guardian when a closer guardian (the father) is present, unless the father refuses to marry her to a suitable partner without a valid reason; in that case, the more distant guardian may marry her off.

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