What is the reason for the delay in answering question number 2383124, and what is the reason for the pain in the glans penis and below the navel after a wet dream, and how can one control sexual urges?

A person can control their desires by resorting to Allah, supplicating to Him, and humbling themselves before Him. This also includes frequent fasting, remembering Allah, avoiding whatever incites desire, keeping company with the righteous, and reflecting on what benefits them in their religious and worldly affairs.