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Is it permissible for an adult widow to marry a man without the knowledge of her family or his, with witnesses only from the husband's friends, out of fear of falling into sin?

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The relationship between foreign men and women for the purpose of marriage (a love relationship) is not endorsed by Islamic law, and it is a door to temptation, thus it must be severed. For a woman's marriage to be valid, a guardian (wali) is required. A woman's marriage without a guardian is null and void according to the majority of scholars. It is not permissible for a woman to proceed with marriage without her guardian's knowledge and direct involvement in the contract. If the guardian prevents a woman from marrying a suitable match, she has the right to refer her case to a judge.

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