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ما حكم الشرع في عدم زيارة الأخت لأختها عند الولادة، وعدم تهنئتها بالمولود؟

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A sister's refusal to congratulate her brother on his newborn does not justify severing ties with her at all. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, commanded maintaining ties of kinship even with those who cut them off. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: «The one who maintains ties of kinship is not the one who reciprocates; rather, the one who maintains ties is he who, when his ties of kinship are cut off, connects with them.» And from Abu Hurairah, a man said: «O Messenger of Allah, I have relatives with whom I maintain ties, but they cut me off; I do good to them, but they do evil to me; I am forbearing with them, but they are ignorant towards me. He said: If you are as you say, then it is as if you are feeding them hot ashes, and there will always be a supporter from Allah against them as long as you remain upon that.» Islamic law has not specified a particular method or amount for maintaining kinship ties; rather, this varies according to circumstances and customs. If refraining from visiting your sister and congratulating her on her newborn is considered an act of severing ties according to custom, then it is not permissible. We advise you to visit your sister and congratulate her on her newborn, for whoever desires that his provision be expanded and his lifespan extended should maintain ties of kinship.

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