What is the ruling on continuing a relationship with a female friend when feelings of love for her cause the emission of prostatic fluid (madhiy), and is the desire to hug and kiss her with a "pure kiss" considered a sin, and what should one do to avoid deviance, given a previous history of masturbation?

There is no objection to loving a righteous girl and longing to see her, embrace her, and kiss her on the cheek after a long absence, as long as it is far from unlawful desire. One must cast away the whispers of Satan and cooperate with her in obedience to Allah, enjoining one another to good deeds and forbidding evil. One must hasten to repent from masturbation. What is imagined to be the discharge of a clear fluid upon hearing the words "I love you" may be a whisper [from Satan] or the usual vaginal secretions.