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What is the most appropriate way to deal with a teenage son who is going through a difficult phase in the absence of his father, as his behavior has started to change, he is being influenced by bad company, he owns a mobile phone with inappropriate content, in addition to his negligence in performing prayers and lying, which has led to his estrangement from his family, as well as his exposure to a troubling incident on a trip?

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Preventing the Dangers of Adolescence:

Sound Upbringing: Memorizing the Quran from a young age, teaching religious rulings, and forbidding bad morals. Prayer: Commanding children to pray at the age of seven and striking them (gently, if necessary, for non-compliance) at ten, because it purifies and helps in obeying Allah. Separation in Beds: Separating children in their beds at the age of ten to prevent sexual arousal. Righteous Company: Choosing friends who spend their time in obedience to Allah and guide towards good. Seeking Permission: Obligating children to seek permission before entering private areas during times of undressing. Initiating Marriage: Encouraging young people to marry to protect their chastity and lower their gaze.

Dealing with an Adolescent Son:

Moderation in Dealing: Avoiding excessive strictness and excessive leniency. Changing Company: Trying to find righteous company for him indirectly. Limiting Going Out: Keeping him occupied at home with studying or permissible activities. Parental Supervision: The father monitoring his behavior. Bearing Responsibility: Making him feel responsible for the household and his sisters. Relationship with Paternal Uncles: Strengthening his connection with his paternal uncles so they can be a support for him. Early Marriage: Seriously considering marrying him off if possible. Supplication: Frequently supplicating for his righteousness and guidance.

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