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What is the legal concept of lineage as a condition for compatibility (kafa'ah) in marriage? Is compatibility in lineage required for a man of noble birth? And does Islamic law find fault with a man marrying a woman of lower lineage than his own?

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Compatibility in marriage is considered from the husband's side, not the wife's. The husband must be compatible with the woman and her equal, but the reverse is not a condition. As for a noble husband, it is not considered a defect when he marries someone of a lower status than him. The Shari'ah has commanded husbands to choose women of religious commitment. Allah Almighty says: "And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you." [Al-Baqarah: 221]. In the Hadith: "So choose the one who is religious, and may your hands be soiled (with dust - i.e., may you prosper)." Islam does not fault a man for marrying a woman of lower lineage, as long as she is righteous. The questioner's obedience to his mother in choosing a wife is obligatory, as long as it does not lead him to disobey Allah concerning the woman he leaves for his mother's sake, because obedience to Allah takes precedence.

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