What is the ruling on one who wants to live near his family, knowing that this will cause great problems for his wife, given that his family is very interfering and their relationship with her is not good? And does the wife have the right to choose her home and who she lives near?

Providing housing for his wife is obligatory upon the husband, in a private dwelling with complete facilities. It is not permissible for him to house her with another woman or with his parents except with her permission. If his dwelling near his family will cause harm, then he must house her far away. It is possible to combine proximity to parents with avoiding problems by establishing rules for visits and interactions, or by visiting them frequently and attending to their needs if the dwelling is far.