What is the ruling of Islamic law regarding parents' refusal of their son's marriage to his maternal aunt's daughter, who suffers from lupus erythematosus, and their desire to marry him to other female relatives whom he does not desire, knowing that the son wishes to marry his maternal aunt's daughter and fears incompatibility with the others?
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The parents' choice of spouse is not binding upon the son, and his refusal is not considered an act of disobedience. Ibn Taymiyyah held the view that it is impermissible for parents to compel their son to marry someone he does not desire. The fundamental principle is that a man should marry a woman towards whom his heart inclines to ensure the continuity of affection. It is preferable for a man to make his choice before marriage, and he has the right to see the woman he intends to marry in order to discern his matter clearly.
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