What is the meaning of "hurt or been hurt" (آذت أو أوذيت) in the context of the hadith that describes the woman who says to her husband: "By Allah, I shall not taste sleep until you are pleased"?

The hadith narrated by Al-Nasa'i and Al-Tabarani, and graded as hasan by Al-Albani, on the authority of Ibn Abbas, describes the women of Paradise as being affectionate (wadood), prolific (walood), and returning to their husbands ('a'ood). The meaning of "'aadhat aw oodhiyat" (whether she wronged him or he wronged her) is that she strives to appease him, saying: "By Allah, I shall not taste slumber until you are pleased." Al-Manawi explained this to mean: "I shall not taste sleep until you are pleased with me."