Does the fiancée's distress and crying after performing Istikhara three times indicate a rejection, even though her parents are comfortable with the young man?
Scholars have differed regarding what the person performing Istikhara should rely upon. The more preponderant opinion is that one should proceed with the matter after performing Istikhara, and not abandon it unless Allah diverts them from it. Based on this, the questioner is advised to accept the suitor if she finds him suitable. The lack of an immediate feeling of relief or openness in her heart should not deter her, while relying on Allah and having a good opinion of Him.
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