How can I stop talking to a young man I love, despite my repeated attempts and failure to do so, especially after he refused to marry me, citing his circumstances and that he does not marry a girl he used to talk to?
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The girl must repent from speaking with young men and sever her relationship with this young man. Individuals like him violate the honor of girls and then seek a chaste woman for marriage, fearing suspicion. She must fear Allah and remember that He is a Watcher over her. She should adhere to gatherings of goodness and the company of righteous women to strengthen her faith. She must abandon her longing for this young man and seek a righteous man who will protect her chastity, for there is no harm in a woman seeking a righteous husband.
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