Is it permissible for a man aged thirty-five to befriend a sixteen-year-old girl through a chat room for the purpose of learning and benefiting, knowing that there is nothing in this friendship that displeases Allah?
It is not permissible for a girl to establish a friendship with a man through private chat rooms to avoid temptation. Her participation is limited to public discussion forums, provided she moderates her language and avoids private conversations directed at men.
One must be cautious of lying and deception in the online world and fear Allah by not causing temptation for others. The claim of a pure heart when conversing between genders is unreliable. Internet services can be explored through beneficial service websites or women-only discussion forums.
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