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Is a father entitled to force his son to divorce his wife—after the marriage took place without his approval—with the threat of disowning him and ostracizing him from all family members, and preventing him from entering his country? And how can one satisfy the parents while keeping the wife?

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Residing in disbelieving lands poses a danger to one's religion and morals, and its negative effects have become apparent in the questioner's behavior and his disobedience to his parents. The questioner must repent immediately and strive to please his parents. If the father insists on divorcing the wife, then he must be obeyed, because his command is not born of caprice, and divorcing the wife in this case is not like divorcing her if she were righteous. So what if this wife is unrighteous? The parents' pleasure should not be opposed by marriage to a woman who can be replaced by a better one, especially since the Sharia encourages marriage to a woman of religiosity. Obedience to parents is obligatory if they command the divorce of the wife, even if the husband loves her, because they are the servant's path to Paradise.

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