Am I sinning by helping my brother financially whenever he asks, with my wife and son knowing, and does this constitute a breach of their rights? Should I continue helping or stop?
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Helping needy relatives is an act of charity and maintaining kinship ties, and it is among the best deeds, for the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Charity given to a poor person is one charity, but charity given to a relative is two: charity and maintaining kinship ties." It is not necessary to inform the wife or seek her permission when helping a brother. However, if helping the brother results in harm to the wife and son due to insufficient income, then their obligatory expenses take precedence over the commendable act of helping the brother.
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