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Is it considered an act of disobedience for daughters to hate their mother and for their relationship with her to worsen, after she forced them to commit obscenities since adolescence, and what is the solution for that?

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This mother has committed a grave error by neglecting the trust of raising her daughters and caring for their religious observance and morals; rather, she has compelled them to commit abominable acts. Allah Almighty has entrusted women with the care of their daughters and has warned against neglecting this responsibility, as He says: "O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire," and as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects." It is not permissible for the daughters to obey their mother in this matter, as there is no obedience to a creature in disobedience to the Creator. However, this does not justify disowning the mother or failing to be kind to her and accompany her with goodness. The daughters should learn the Sharia and act upon it, and strive to get married to leave this home.

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