What is the ruling on revealing God's concealment in a situation involving shame and temptation that could lead to murder, and the consequent sin that would affect you and your children?

Whoever commits adultery must offer sincere repentance and strive to do good in the future. It is better for him to conceal his sin, and he is not obligated to confess it to the ruler. Adultery is a grave major sin and a cause of Allah's wrath, and Allah has ordained punishment for it in this world and the Hereafter.