What should I do to teach my son the Noble Quran, given the negligence of my son's school and my avoidance of another school that gives the matter attention, in addition to the fact that my husband follows a mosque whose methodology is incompatible with the mosque I attend?

The answer summarizes several pieces of advice for the couple regarding raising their children and teaching them religion:

1. For the Mother: Be keen on learning the Arabic language to increase her knowledge of religion and to be able to teach her children.

2. For the Father: Fear Allah and be just among your children in attention and education, especially regarding the Qur’an and Sunnah, citing the Hadith of Nu'man ibn Bashir and the story of Yusuf. Focus on teaching children Islamic sciences, especially the Arabic language and the Noble Qur’an at a young age, due to its impact on understanding and steadfastness. Adhere to the Book and the Sunnah as a source of legislation and guidance, and do not be fanatical towards legal schools of thought. Benefit from them without blind imitation that contradicts sound texts, mentioning the sayings of the Four Imams in this regard. Deal flexibly with the wife and listen to her advice, especially if she is keen on following the Book and the Sunnah.

3. Regarding Schools with Innovations (Bid'ah): If there is no alternative, it is permissible to send children with utmost caution and awareness of minor innovations. However, immediate prohibition is required if these innovations affect the children.

4. Regarding Teachers: The shaykh who teaches from the sound Book and Sunnah is preferred, and the couple should benefit from him for their children and themselves.