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What is the ruling on the current relationship between the young man and his female colleague, and what is the proposed solution to their problem, taking into consideration the young man's refusal to distance himself from her and his desire for immediate marriage, and the existence of initial parental approval, but the father stipulates graduation?

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This answer clarifies that studying in mixed-gender universities is dangerous, but if a young man is compelled to do so, he must adhere to Islamic law, lowering his gaze and avoiding unlawful seclusion (khalwa). It advises young men who are able to marry to do so immediately; otherwise, they should sever the relationship until marriage becomes feasible, while observing fasting, safeguarding their hearing and sight, occupying their time with beneficial activities, associating with righteous companions, and increasing supplication.

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