Is it permissible for a man to order his wife to shave her hair in imitation of men, even though his intention is otherwise?

A man may ask his wife to shorten her hair, provided she does not imitate men or disbelieving women. However, it is not permissible for a woman to shave her hair except for a valid excuse. Shaving it to imitate men or disbelieving women is strictly forbidden, and obedience to a husband in an act of disobedience to Allah is not permissible.