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What is the concept of betrothal (khitbah) in Islam, and is the exchange of rings at the engagement party among the practices described by Sharia?

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In Islamic law, khitbah (betrothal) is a man's proposal of marriage to a woman. It is legislated in Islam, and the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, encouraged looking at the prospective fiancée. There are no specific procedures for khitbah in , and the customs associated with it are permissible unless there is a Sharia text prohibiting them. Among these customs is the exchange of rings (dublah), which often involves violations: First, some people believe that it increases love, which is a pre-Islamic (Jahili) belief. Second, it involves imitating non-Muslims. Third, it usually occurs before the marriage contract (aqd), so it is not permissible for the suitor to put the ring on his fiancée's finger because she is still a non- to him. Sheikh Ibn Uthaymeen indicated that the dublah becomes forbidden if it is accompanied by a belief that necessitates attachment, or if the suitor puts it on his fiancée's finger before the marriage contract.

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