How can one reconcile the hadiths about Al-Hur Al-Ain, which indicate that they are created in advance and destined for a man, with the hadith about suppressing anger, which permits a man to choose whomever he wishes from Al-Hur Al-Ain on the Day of Resurrection, taking into consideration the issue of Al-Hur Al-Ain cursing the man's wife who mistreats him in this world?

For every Muslim who enters Paradise, there will be at least two wives from among the wide-eyed houris. They will be aware of some of his circumstances in this world. This number increases the higher his rank is in Paradise. Among the righteous deeds whose doer is given the choice to select whichever houris he wishes is suppressing anger when he has the power to act upon it.