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Is it permissible for a father to give to one child and deprive another? And how should we speak with our father, especially since this contradicts Sharia?

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Source: FtawySummary from Ftawy's records · added here Sep 2, 20261 min readAlso available in العربية
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All praise is due to Allah.

The text addresses the issue of justice among children in giving gifts, clarifying that it is not permissible to single out some children for a gift while excluding others, except for a legitimate reason. It cites the of Nu'man ibn Bashir, when his father wanted to single him out for a gift, and the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, forbade him, saying: "Be mindful of Allah and be just among your children." Whoever has done this must repent and retract their gift, or give the rest of their children a similar gift. An exception to this is when those deprived of the gift agree fully and without coercion, or when there is a legitimate reason such as need, poverty, or seeking knowledge. Children should gently advise their father if he does not treat them justly.

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