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What is the way for a girl to overcome her psychological and academic ordeal after being deceived by a colleague, and what should she do to restore her dignity?

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You must sincerely repent of the sinful relationship and cut off all contact with the man. Forget the past, turn that page, and begin a new relationship with Allah and people. Conceal yourself with Allah's concealment and do not expose yourself, as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Whoever is afflicted with any of these abominable things, let him conceal himself with Allah's concealment," and "All of my Ummah are forgiven except al-Mujahiroon (those who openly declare their sins)." These past incidents will not affect you if your condition improves and your repentance is sincere, as there is no betrayal of the suitor in them. Every son of Adam is a sinner, and the best of sinners are those who repent. And the one who repents from sin is like one who has no sin. You must continue to seek forgiveness, obey Allah, worship Him, recite the Quran, and remember Allah. Leave the young man to his own devices, for his Lord will recompense him for his actions.

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