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Does a divorce pronounced with the words "you are divorced by three" take effect, given that it was intended as a punishment and lesson, uttered under extreme anger, and knowing that the wife was in her postpartum period (nifas)? Is it permissible to take her back? Is this pronouncement considered one divorce or three? What is the waiting period (iddah) for a woman in nifas? Is sexual intercourse after the divorce considered a revocation (raj'ah)? What is the ruling on them remaining in the same house after the divorce? And should the Sunni madhhab be followed regarding divorce, even though the marriage took place according to the Shia madhhab, which does not recognize verbal divorce?

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In summary: Referring to the Sharia court is the most appropriate action in such matters. Important points include:

First: The issue of uttering three divorces in a single phrase is a matter of disagreement among scholars. The majority of scholars hold that three divorces occur, while others believe only one divorce occurs. The revocable wife's consent is not required for a رجعة (return to the marriage).

Second: Scholars have differed on what is permissible for a husband with his revocable divorcee. However, if the divorce is irrevocable, it is not permissible for him to cohabit with her in the same house unless each of them has separate facilities.

Third: Anger does not prevent the occurrence of divorce as long as the person is aware of what he is saying.

Fourth: Divorce pronounced during nifas (postpartum bleeding) is valid, and the one who pronounces it is sinful.

Fifth: The maximum period for nifas is forty days. If the bleeding stops before then, she should perform ghusl (ritual bath) and pray.

Sixth: The ultimate reference for matters of marriage and divorce is the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of His Messenger, peace and blessings be upon him.

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