Is there a complete biography available for Abu Qudamah, the man who lived in Iraq in the tenth century and fought against the Christians, and about whom a story is narrated concerning a woman and her son?

The story mentioned concerning Abu Qudamah Al-Shami, the woman who cut her braids, and the young man who was martyred, was cited by Ibn Al-Jawzi in "Sifat Al-Safwah" with the phrase "It reached us." This story has no known reliable chain of transmission (isnad), and its context suggests its unreliability. Many such tales are woven by storytellers to encourage jihad and good deeds, which is not permissible. Allah Almighty has enriched us with the verses of the Quran and authentic hadiths, making us independent of unsubstantiated stories.