How can one deal with a husband's anger and help him overcome the problem of a second marriage that was forced upon him, and how can the wife deal with his not listening to her and with future problems, and what should the wife do to overcome feelings of dissatisfaction and hatred towards him?

Allah has legislated polygyny, so you must accept what Allah has decreed and say, "Allah has decreed, and what He willed, He did." Your acceptance of Allah's decree will bring peace to your soul and tranquility to your heart, and it will enable you to create a suitable atmosphere for your husband. Whereas your dissatisfaction will increase weeping and agitate your husband. Be patient and calm, draw closer to your husband, and remind him of Allah. If he becomes angry, let him end it by seeking refuge in Allah from Satan, performing ablution, and changing his posture. We ask Allah to rectify your husband for you and to remove distress from both of you.