What is this fluid that is discharged and causes me confusion regarding ghusl because of it, is it maniyy or madhiy?

The fluid that comes out of you is either madhiy (pre-seminal fluid) if it exits upon looking or at anything that arouses desire, or it is normal discharge if it exits without a cause. If you are unsure whether it is maniy (seminal fluid) or madhiy, you have the choice to consider it either. You are not required to perform ghusl (ritual purification bath) unless you have absolute certainty that maniy has exited.