Is it permissible for a man to ask a Muslim sister who is a stranger to him to help him with marriage by mentioning the qualities he desires, so that she can search and bring him together with someone she finds suitable, and then he communicates with her family and the lawful viewing takes place?
Seeking help from others in matters of marriage is considered a legitimate form of cooperation in righteousness and piety. It is permissible for a man to appoint a woman to search for a wife if she is trustworthy and adheres to the Shariah guidelines, such as necessity, ensuring safety from temptation, modesty, avoiding khalwa (private seclusion with a non-mahram), refraining from forbidden gazes, not deriving pleasure from listening to voices, avoiding softening her speech, and adhering to hijab. It is advised not to resort to this method unless legitimate alternatives are unavailable, such as seeking assistance from mahrams or scholars. If alternatives are not available, the intermediary should be trustworthy, insightful, truthful, and experienced, so as not to exaggerate or understate in her descriptions.
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