How should one act when seeking divorce or khulʿ after the marriage contract, especially considering the noble hadith: "Any woman who seeks divorce without a strong reason will not smell the fragrance of Paradise," particularly when the husband is described as tender and of good character, yet becomes irritable when angry? And how can one deal with the husband after reconciliation to restore the relationship to its former state or better, and how can one deal with his coldness or extreme jealousy?

There is no sin upon a woman if she requests divorce or khul' from her husband due to his bad character, because the noble Hadith prohibits seeking divorce "without a compelling reason." The husband's bad character is a defect that permits the woman to seek divorce. Nevertheless, it is advised to proceed cautiously, consult with family, and perform istikhara. If the husband had a valid khalwa (private seclusion) with her, then her ruling is that of consummation, and iddah (waiting period) becomes obligatory according to the majority of scholars. To deal with the husband or overcome attachment to him after divorce, it is advised to contact the counseling department.