Is it permissible to marry a young man who is not very religious and not steadfast in his faith, knowing that I desire a husband who will help me remain firm in my religion and remind me of Allah?
Persevering in prayer, reciting the Qur'an, and listening to lectures are good deeds. However, following TV series that contain শরয়ী (Shari'ah) violations and listening to music are bad deeds. This does not imply hypocrisy, as a believer may stumble and fall into sin, and must repent immediately. Repentance involves regretting the past, abandoning the sin, and intending not to return to it. The fluctuation between obedience and disobedience is cause for compassion. One should frequently supplicate for the heart to remain steadfast in religion. Studying medicine is important, but preferring it over Islamic studies stems from a worldly perspective. The focus should be on the suitor's religiosity and character, and one should inquire about his situation. If it is satisfactory, then accept him after performing Istikhara (prayer for guidance).
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