Is it permissible to supplicate against a girl who wronged, made a promise, and then broke it, and does the saying “as you judge, so you will be judged” apply to her?
Love relationships between young men and women are not sanctioned by Islamic law and open the door to temptation. If mutual affection exists, the solution is marriage. If marriage is not feasible, then they must turn away from this attachment and strive for chastity. The questioner must repent from dating and meeting by abandoning these acts, regretting them, and resolving not to return to them. He is not permitted to supplicate against the girl, as both of them erred. He must also strive in obedience and distance himself from sins.
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