Is the wife obligated to obey her husband who has anal sex with her without penetration, and asks her to suck his penis, knowing that he has only had vaginal intercourse with her once in 9 months, and has started psychological treatment? What should the wife do? And should she seek a divorce?

We previously discussed the permissibility of a husband fondling his wife's anus without penetration, and that it is disliked, as well as the ruling on oral sex. The sexual pleasure that a wife must respond to is the conventional one, and she is not obliged to obey her husband in unconventional acts. Sexual intercourse is a right for the wife, and if the husband does not fulfill it, she has the right to seek a divorce. It is better for the wife to be patient with her husband if he is seeking treatment.