Can a woman who married while loving another man be in Paradise with the one she loved, or with her husband whom she accepted in this world?

A woman in Paradise will be with the husband she married in this world, not with someone she loved but did not marry. Worldly disputes will vanish in Paradise, for it is a abode of comfort and bliss. We advise you to be content with your husband and forget the one you loved, to avoid falling short in your husband's rights or committing forbidden acts.