Is a young man's lack of success in marrying a committed woman for three years—despite his financial capability, diligent search, and performing Istikhara (prayer for guidance)—considered a trial and a test from Allah, and what should he do about it?
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Your delayed marriage might be a trial from Allah to test your patience, so continue supplicating and maintaining good thoughts about Allah. We advise you to keep searching for a woman of faith and good character, as she is more likely to know the rights of her husband, obey her Lord, and be a helper to you in raising children. Your lack of success in marriage because you seek a woman of faith is not necessarily a fault; therefore, do not rush into marrying a non-hijabi woman lest she corrupt your religion and your worldly life. Be patient and seek help from Allah and from righteous people, and you will achieve your goal.
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