Are the mutual feelings of love and the recurring coincidences that bring me together with this man diabolical whisperings, or is this man my destiny decreed by Allah for me?

Solving emotional problems requires courage, and if one cannot control their feelings, they must cut off the paths leading to them and close the doors through which they enter.

A wise person does not get carried away by overwhelming emotions to build a fateful decision upon them, especially if they do not know the truth of the other party's position and their desire for a lawful marriage.

The questioner is advised to leave the matter to her guardians and trusted family members, so they can ascertain the man's desire and seriousness regarding marriage.

If he is willing and serious, they can facilitate the matter for him. If not, she should disregard him and cut off every path that leads to him, and she will soon forget him.