How can a woman's family be convinced to allow her to marry while she continues her studies and shared work to secure the future?
Islamic law encourages marriage for those who love each other, as the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "We have not seen for two who love one another anything like marriage." So, if it is possible to marry this girl and convince her family, then do so. Otherwise, it is obligatory to cut off the relationship with her and stop talking to her, as a preventative measure against temptation. You must not surrender to the illusions of love, and seek someone else, for you might find someone who is pleased with you and whose guardian agrees to give her to you in marriage. Do not regret leaving her, for Allah says: "And perhaps you dislike a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah knows, while you know not." If marriage to her becomes feasible after graduation and securing a job, that is a good thing, with the possibility of combining study and work. We also emphasize the necessity of observing the regulations for mixed-gender education.
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