How can we reconcile the fatwas that state that the Prophet consummated his marriage with Aisha after she reached puberty, and others that state she had not yet reached it, noting that she had reached womanhood in terms of her eligibility for marriage while still playing with dolls? And what is the wisdom behind marrying someone who has not reached puberty, cannot conceive, and has no desire? And is enduring intercourse the only criterion for consummating a marriage, without considering the wife's intellectual maturity or her understanding of the marital relationship? And does early marriage cause psychological harm to the child?
A Muslim should direct their efforts towards what benefits them in their religious and worldly affairs, and avoid preoccupation with questions of doubt, especially if sound texts have been established concerning a particular matter. There is no issue with the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, marrying Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, when she was young, because a girl reaching the age of maturity for women does not necessarily coincide with legal accountability (taklif shar'i). Signs of maturity may appear at this age, and environments differ in this regard. Marriage has other legitimate purposes besides lust, such as lineage, ancestry, and status. The Companions were keen to intermarry with the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, due to his honor. It may be commendable for a guardian not to marry off his ward before puberty unless there is a clear benefit. Aisha's playing with dolls does not contradict her having reached the age of maturity for women, as a woman may retain some childhood inclinations, and this is not something to be condemned.
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