Does a divorce take place if a wife gives her husband the choice between divorce and speaking to a specific person, and then the husband speaks to that person without the intention of divorce?

The Shari'ah has placed divorce in the hand of the husband, so it does not occur unless he actually pronounces it. The wife giving her husband a choice between divorce and another matter has no legal standing and does not affect the marital relationship. One must be cautious about women uttering such words.