Is a woman obligated to preserve her virginity, and is it permissible for her to break it through masturbation if that is permissible when needed?
This custom is forbidden for both men and women. A woman removing her hymen with her hand is forbidden because it is the destruction of an organ without a just cause. Some scholars have explicitly stated that it is forbidden for a husband to remove his wife's hymen with his finger or similar means, and that doing so necessitates disciplinary punishment (ta'zir).
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