What is the ruling on a wife who blames her husband for spending on his family, despite her knowledge of their need and his financial well-being?

A wife should not blame her husband for doing good deeds; for a righteous wife helps her husband in good, and a righteous wife does not forbid her husband from helping his needy family. The husband should not inform his wife of the good deeds he does, and he must do good and what is desirable for him, regardless of his wife's prohibition, for there is no obedience to her in that.