What is the ruling on divorcing a wife in the following cases: her denial of an action she committed, or the repetition of a specific action, or the repetition of a word that angered the husband, or her spending the night outside her home, bearing in mind that the husband did not intend divorce but rather wanted to prevent her from doing those things?

What is mentioned in the question is a conditional divorce (talaq (definition) mu'allaq) that does not take effect unless the condition upon which it is suspended is met in the future. The questioner is advised to disregard these intrusive thoughts (waswas) and to avoid excessive questioning and branching out, and to consult the psychological counseling section on the website.