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What is the meaning of seeing a shirt that provides cover after hardship, and the interpretation of a young child, who has not yet spoken, repeating the verse: "Say: Nothing will afflict us except what Allah has decreed for us" after a suitor was rejected?

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A woman has the right to refuse someone she does not deem suitable for her, and it is recommended to choose a husband from whom marital compatibility and happiness are hoped. Islamic law has commanded seeking the woman's permission for marriage, as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A previously married woman is not to be married until she is consulted, and a virgin is not to be married until her permission is sought." So there is no harm in refusing someone to whom one's heart is not inclined, and this might even be a blessing from Allah. One should supplicate to Allah Almighty to achieve what is desired, as He, may He be glorified, says: "And your Lord said, 'Call upon Me; I will respond to you.'" There is no harm in accepting a husband if he is pleasing in his religion and character, even if there is no love, for there are other considerations for accepting him. As for dreams and the words of a child, they have no interpretation.

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