Should the questioner seek divorce from her husband who does not deal justly between his two wives, nor provide for her or their children, or should she bear patiently with him for the sake of her children?

If a husband does not deal justly between his two wives or withholds maintenance from his children who are entitled to it, he is an oppressor, and the wife has the right to seek divorce. However, regarding withholding maintenance from the wife while she is traveling with his permission, scholars have differed on its ruling. It is advised not to seek divorce if patience is possible, especially when there are children, and that staying together and living amicably is preferable to separation.