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Is what a father does by preventing his daughters from marrying considered oppression, and does a daughter's hatred for her oppressive father affect the acceptance of her worship?

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If a father refuses to marry off his daughters for legitimate Sharia-compliant reasons, there is no blame upon him. Examples include his disapproval of the suitor's religiosity or character, or the suitor's lack of sufficient income. However, if the refusal is without a legitimate Sharia-compliant justification, it is considered 'adhl (unjust prevention) and oppression. If the rejection of competent suitors is repeated, the girl has the right to take her case to court. The judge will then order her guardian to marry her off; if he refuses, the judge will marry her off. The father's injustice does not negate his right (as a father) nor does it justify disobedience from his children. It is obligatory to honor him and treat him kindly.

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