How do I deal with my feeling that my mother doesn't understand me, asks me for things that exhaust me, refuses to postpone tasks, and balances between me and my siblings who enjoy greater freedom?

We advise you to fear Allah, strive to be dutiful and obedient to your mother, and treat her with excellence, for this is one of the greatest acts of obedience. Endeavor to seek her pleasure, and organize your time for sleeping and waking up early, so you can combine the health of your body with obedience to your mother. There is no objection to trying to convince her with gentle words and a good approach.