Is wishing for a sister, crying sorrowfully over not having one, and this not stemming from a lack of trust in friends or a need for help, considered an objection to Allah's divine decree and destiny?

What Allah has ordained is wisdom and benefit. One must entrust matters to Him and submit to His decree, without wishing for anything contrary to destiny. Grief is unjustified. One should seek a righteous female friend who will assist in obedience, and adhere to the remembrance of Allah and supplicate Him.