How can one avoid incurring the wrath of a mother who curses her daughter, divulges her secrets, and reproaches her, despite the daughter's attempts at reconciliation? And is the daughter, in this case, considered disobedient and deserving of God's wrath?

The rights of parents are great in the sight of Allah Almighty. Allah has coupled the command to worship Him with kindness to them, and the mother's right to kindness and good treatment is more emphasized. Therefore, the questioner should avoid stubbornness and be dutiful to her mother, gentle in her approach, and show kindness even if her mother becomes angry without reason. By doing so, she will not be disobedient.