Is a husband entitled to compel his wife to live in a house she dislikes, and is the wife sinful if she disobeys her husband in this matter?

If the dwelling your father wants your mother to live in is unsuitable, she has the right to refuse it and demand a dwelling that suits their situation. It is not a condition for the dwelling to be owned by the husband; rather, it must be suitable for the couple's circumstances, considering their financial ease or hardship.