What is the ruling regarding a girl's submission to her family's request to go to the hairdresser on her wedding night, despite her attempts to refuse because she considers it a custom, and her fear that her father will cut ties with her?

If women perform beautification and adornment, this is permissible and there is no harm in it, and the parents' invitation to it should be obeyed. However, if men are performing these services, then going to the beautician is forbidden, and it is not permissible to obey parents in this matter. Their abandonment or anger does not cause harm as long as it is without just cause.